important tip!

Murphy’s law tells us that anything that can go wrong will go wrong. And while we refuse to live our entire lives awaiting the pending bad luck headed our way, it’s a good reminder that sometimes we have to let go. On your wedding day, this is even more important! What time the cake arrives, your uncle who is running behind, that darn button that just broke on your dress… all of these things will seem so large at the time, but they’re really very small. But guess what?? You’re getting married!!! Yes, today is that day. And it’s allllllll about you! We can’t tell you how many times we’ve said to a bride, “The [church/guests/officiant/band/servers/you fill in the blank] will wait for you. You’re the main event… the day can’t go on until you’re ready.” And it’s so true, because not everything will go as planned… and we promise that it won’t matter to you later! We went to a wedding where a bride’s cake toppled over in the delivery car before making it to the wedding. AHHHH – I can’t tell you how stressed the mom, sisters, dad, groom were. Even WE were stressed!! But the bride, she was soooo calm. At first, I thought she had taken one too many sips of champagne. But then, she told us, “It’s just a cake… I can send someone to buy another. It’s not going to ruin the best day of my life.” I nearly cried from hearing this… how humbling!! But also how true!! So remember, no matter what it is – just say this, “It’s just a _____. It’s not going to ruin my day!”